Frequently Asked Questions

• How should I prepare for a session?

  You should dress in such a way that you feel good about how you look. Think casual first date. However, if you think you rock sweatpants and a tee, that's great. Just freshly showered and no perfume, makeup, antiperspirant, or jewelery.

• Is nudity involved?

  Only as much as you desire, although certain aspects of certain sessions will require partial nudity. As for me, some women will prefer me to be clothed. Others will want things on a more equal footing. Remember, it's all about you and your comfort level.

• Do you work with couples?

  No. Even though there may be intimate, sensual touching, the sessions are not sexual in nature. I know that's hard to understand without going through a session, but trust me, it's true. So, when a significant other is added to the mix, it can impart a sexual dynamic with which I will not be comfortable.

• Will you help me explain to my significant other why this will be good for us as a couple?

  Not directly. See my blog post on this subject for some reasons you can use.

• What's out of bounds during a session?

  In the 30 minute consultation (required before the first session), I will tell you my boundaries and you will tell me yours. You, of course, may change your boundaries at any time during our session. In general, if you wish to direct my attention to a new area or technique, you will always need to tell me where and how you wish to be touched. This is because your boundaries may have changed from the initial consultation. The point is, you will always be in control.

• What if I don't know what I want you to do next?

  Then ask, and I will give you a list of possibilities. You may choose any of those possibilities, or none of them. If we can't figure out what to do next, we'll wind down the session. I will never tell you what we will do next. The mission of Tantra Science is to give you practice in taking charge of your sensual well-being. If you are unable or unwilling to take control, then Tantra Science is probably not for you.

• How do I compensate you?

  After our session has ended, you may donate to the cause by transfering funds via Paypal. If our session does not live up to your expectations, however, you are under no obligation to donate. Also, you should never donate more than you can afford.